It’s always a pleasure to have friends come visit. One came by in February and another just left a week ago. Back in NY we always used to talk about kicking it in Taiwan, and we finally made good on that promise. Seeing them here was just unbelievable at times. After spending a few months out here by myself, having to find my way around and make new friends, it was a calming feeling to have my homies around for a while. Not only were we out to have a blast in the motherland, but they reminded me of the good things I had to sacrifice by coming here.
On the other hand, I also got to experience one of the joys of essentially being a traveler. I met a friend maybe 3 years ago, at a mini-reunion dinner of some middle school that I wasn’t even a part of. Some of them were my high school friends, ones I rarely chilled with. Therefore, I figured most likely I would not be seeing a lot of these people ever again. Well, it turns out one of the few friends I added on FB years ago was coming to Taiwan. She finished her contract teaching English in Korea and was spending her last couple of days travelling around Asia. She didn’t know anyone here, so I have to say it was quite fortunate of her to get in touch with me.
Being the gracious host that I am, I brought here to various hotspots of Taipei and she got to meet a bunch of my friends. I take my tour guide duties seriously; I feel like it is a civil responsibility to show people what a great fucking place this is. I have to commend her for being brave to travel alone though. It most definitely spurs my wanderlust…
Coming here, one thing I discovered was that I am generally a friendly person. Gregarious, even. Perhaps being out here allowed me to hone my social skills, or maybe I just feel a lot more easygoing now after leaving the city that never sleeps. Regardless, I’m cautiously optimistic that one of my goals of self-development is being realized.
Lastly, despite my burgeoning social skills, I gotta say there’s nothing like having your homeslices around. Those type of friends are irreplaceable. I’m truly fortunate to have friends from childhood that I keep to this day, something that can’t be said for many people. I guess only the test of time will iron out which ones are the keepers.
Read Full Post »